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"A family based in the northern part of London is looking for an remarkable and skilled instructor to assist their most junior child on his early path to becoming an British gentleman."

Upon seeing this advertisement, you might readily overlook the wording "initial stages" as mere a turn of phrase.

However, it might be the most important part of this unusual position posting, as it aims to find a mentor for a one-year-old.

Numerous of submissions have already been submitted since the unnamed family posted their request for the £180k-a-year tutor, who needs to be "a uniquely qualified person".

During the past few weeks, the listing has gained interest in the media, with several wondering why?

Innovative Idea

A tutoring expert, head and founder of an education consultancy, which is helping the family in their quest, stated that notwithstanding early doubt, he found the concept "visionary", and "advanced".

When he consulted the family, he mentioned they recognized the unconventional aspect of their requirement, and how early in age their son is.

Nevertheless, they explained that they "preferred not to postpone any longer" to get a tutor, as they had held off until their older child was five, and by that age "cultural influence had already taken hold".

What exactly does the family indicate by "cultural leaning"?

It's "everything", the expert answered. "How you eat, the way you speak".

He explained the firstborn had adopted "really subtle, body language" from the family, and had assumed their cultural norms. The family explained to the consultant they did not want the same situation to happen again with their new baby.

The strategy: To engage a British tutor, who needs to speak with standard English accent, to guide the baby from the very start.

Natural Absorption

"Much of the education at the beginning here is kind of absorbed naturally," said the expert.

It's by means of this osmosis that the family are expecting the child will adopt the UK customs they aim to cultivate.

Adam said the tutor must be an individual who went to "the right kinds of schools – comparable categories of schools as the family plan to send their son to".

"The tutor must be the right kind of person, they'll be carrying out things they aren't even aware they're doing, simply by nature," he added.

Money No Object

The family explained to the expert the chosen tutor should ideally also have knowledge of or enthusiasm in horse riding, winter sports, creative fields and music so as to influence the child in a broad spectrum of hobbies.

Furthermore though, he stated the family desired the tutor to sign up the child on a range of courses so the child would be "pony-riding and starting an tool by the time they are about three years old".

In the family's perspective, guiding their son develop into a "UK sophisticate" will lead to accomplishment and create opportunities.

"Taking into account the rights and wrongs of that, because it's undoubtedly a social class indicator," he notes.

But, despite all this tutelage in "English culture", might the child pick up alleged cultural leaning from the international family he resides with anyway?

"Absolutely", said he. "The family know this might not succeed, but they've simply adopted the perspective of, 'let's give it a go and we should start as quickly as we can', because the cost of it is not a concern," he stated.

Idealistic and Unrealistic

Several in the tutoring industry who express those doubts.

Another CEO, chief executive of Blue Education, who provides personal educators, stated that "the process of adopting dual cultures, or actually, discovering oneself, is something that must be experienced personally, not designed."

He noted that he had moved from China to the Britain at the age of childhood, and had been brought up knowing and living dual heritages. He went on to study at the University of Cambridge.

"The notion that an individual can act as a embodiment of English culture, a person who can in some way transfer the characteristics of a UK sophisticate upon a 12-month-old child, seems to me optimistic and impractical," he commented.

"From my perspective, having a distinctly British tutor from babyhood will will not instantly achieve the result they desire.

"I did not have that kind of mentor, and nevertheless I have been privileged enough to live several of the opportunities they aspire for their son."

He added: "The reality is, self-identity can not be imposed from the external environment; it must be embraced, and it must be internally driven."

Acquiring Englishness

Of course, English culture is something Adam thinks can be taught – and commercialized.

"I believe the reality that the global community views us in this respect is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating